The Holiday Mental Load, UNTANGLED.
Everything in one place. You don’t need another “do more” guide. This one is designed to help you do less, intentionally.
Because you shouldn’t have to do all the thinking and all the doing.
Deliberate, Functional, Relaxed Living
It’s not a lifestyle, it’s your life, actually.
You’re not here to live like everyone else, you’re here to live as you. Forget the competition, ditch the trends, and stop worrying about what others think. Embrace your individuality and just do you.
Gifts, gatherings, good food. That’s the vibe
The holidays are supposed to feel joyful, not stressful. If the season leaves you broke, buried in clutter, or completely burned out, you’re not alone. This is your seasonal reset: thoughtful, budget-friendly gifts that don’t feel cheap
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DIY Projects
Budget friendly upgrades, tool guides, and real world home hacks.
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Money Tips
Save smart, spend wisely. Simple money and home finance advice.
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Outdoors
Landscaping, planting, and outdoor DIY ideas for every season
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Get Organized
Decluttering as rebellion. Organization hacks and tips to stay sane.
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Shopping
Thoughtful finds, makers, local shops, and yes, the occasional big box.
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Real Talk
Honest takes on home, work, life and freedom from the grind culture.
Home Finance & Money Things
Product Reviews
Garden & Landscaping
Hennai DIY Projects
I’m Erica Hennes.
I like to consider myself a Midwestern Californian due to my deep sense of humor, sarcasm, and low tolerance for bullshit, but I still like living somewhere that has sun & water & isn’t flat.
I learned the art of DIY from my parents so I have never been afraid to take on something new. Full disclosure... it doesn’t always work as planned, but I guess I like doing things the hard way.
I am dedicated to featuring a mix of interests, how I approach house finances (I’m shockingly crazy here), DIY projects, sustainability, and most importantly featuring some really amazing small business owners.
If you are interested in working together or just want to say hi, please send me a DM here on Instagram. I like to avoid the formalities of email as long as possible.
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Our small bathroom was dark, dated, and depressing. With a $1K budget, we gave it a quick DIY refresh using paint, fixtures, and smart updates that made the space livable until we were ready for the big renovation.